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Child Custody Lawyer in North Carolina

A Better Approach to Ensuring Your Child’s Best Interests

Conflicts involving children often cause stress and heated arguments. At the Winston-Salem law firm of Hartsoe & Associates, our main message to divorce clients experiencing conflict related to custody and child support is this: This does not have to be a war. Our firm can help you focus on reasonable resolutions instead of all-or-nothing battles.

The future of your family is important to us, just as it is important to you.

Our role is to help you understand your realistic options with regard to child support and child custody. Understanding your options will help you make decisions that have the best chance for long-term success and ones that are in the best interests of your children.

Our law firm also offers mediation and arbitration services. Our lead attorney is a certified family law mediator through the state of North Carolina. Contact us to learn more.

Understanding Child Custody & Visitation

North Carolina family court judges will make child custody and visitation decisions based on their determination of the best interests of the children. Except in cases of abuse and neglect, there is no longer a presumption that the children's mother should have primary custody. Instead, both parents should examine their wishes with regard to parenting time along with the children's preferences and the parents' long-term plans regarding work and living situations.

How Is Child Custody Determined?

The rule of thumb is always to decide what is in the child’s best interests. If parents are unable to come to an agreement, they may be required to attend mediation to help them reach that point. Past that point, they will need to bring their claims to court to determine what will be best for the child.

Some of the factors a judge will consider include:

  • A history of abuse
  • If the parent can foster a sense of stability for the child
  • How the parent plans to financially provide for the child
  • The child’s current home environment
  • The child’s wishes

How these issues are decided does matter. A parenting agreement you reach through a negotiated compromise has a better chance of working well in the long run than an arrangement imposed on you by a judge. The process of reaching an agreement may be full of emotional turmoil, but it is often worth it.

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Unfortunately, North Carolina laws on child custody do not permit joint custody. The alternative is to give primary custody to one parent, with the other parent having secondary custody.

Navigating the Challenges of Child Support

While it may seem that child support is a straightforward issue, this is often not the case. For example, if you believe your spouse is hiding income or is purposefully unemployed or underemployed, we may be able to help trace income sources and construct a strong argument that your spouse should be required to pay more.

Self-employment adds all kinds of challenges to the computation of the amount of income to be plugged into the child support calculation. As child support attorneys in Winston-Salem, NC, we are familiar with the various ways people might try to suppress or hide income, and we are aggressive about pursuing the necessary information to determine the truth.

Our child support lawyers in Winston-Salem strive to:

  • Respond immediately
  • Be as accessible as possible
  • Provide experienced legal counsel you deserve
  • Be as compassionate and understanding as possible

Child custody and support are some of the most important issues that go along with divorce or separation. Our team at Hartsoe & Associates is confident we can help you through it and achieve a favorable outcome.

For guidance on your unique situation – whether you need help with an initial determination or a modification – call (336) 390-4774. We assist clients throughout the Piedmont Triad Area.

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